2010-11 MOMSense Magazine Themes
Momology: The Art and Science of Mothering
Even there your hand will guide me; your right hand will hold me fast. (Psalm 139:10)
The theme for 2010-11 is Momology: The Art and Science of Mothering. For nearly four decades, MOPS International has studied mothers and mothering, learning what makes a better mom who makes a better world. Through extensive research and years of experience, we’ve found that mothering is both art and science.
Mothering is so complex it requires both sides of our brain. There's the scientific side of mothering where we develop a hypothesis based on certain principles, test that hypothesis in real-time, consider the results and decide what parts worked best for us and our family and what parts didn't. Intertwined with the scientific, mothering requires an artistry that shades with our personality, colors with our unique gifts and blends past and current experiences.
Following are the themes for each of the six issues of MOMSense magazine:
September/October: Momology: The Art and Science of Mothering Big idea: In real life, moms are like scientists, researching and testing what we think our child needs to be a successful adult. But we’re also artists, combining what we learn with a unique creativity and passion that influences the outcome of our child’s life. Article ideas: Submissions that demonstrate or describe an aspect of the art or science of mothering and help a mom become the unique mother God created her to be. Submissions due: April 22, 2010
November/December: Core – knowing who you are: building a healthy, resilient mom Big idea: Core is about understanding and working with our unique temperament, experiences and emotions in a way that develops resilience. Research clearly shows that a mom with a strong, resilient core is more likely to raise a child with a strong, resilient core. Article ideas: Knowing yourself is important to shaping and maintaining a resilient core; understanding and embracing your innate temperament helps you be a better mom; how to assess, assign and address any negative emotions currently impacting your core; treasure hunting – looking for your core and also your child’s; bending in the wind versus going with the trend; doing things you never thought you could do; discovering one life-defining moment that shaped you into who you are today; barriers and challenges to finding your core; making time for self-care as a woman. Submissions due: June 15, 2010
January/February: Finesse – shaping ourselves as moms so we can shape our children. Big idea: Finesse is about honing practical mothering skills – intentionally carrying out our daily responsibilities in ways that encourage growth and resilience in our kids. Article ideas: How to introduce your child to the world; the recipe of mothering; confident decision-making; maximizing time for attachment and bonding; getting a handle on the dailies leaves time for the biggies; how to get better at being a mom; family traditions are tools that indelibly sketch shared family memories; taking control of the family calendar; positive influences to include in your child’s life; making discipline more effective; getting your child to listen; squelching sibling squabbling. Submissions due: August 15, 2010
March/April: Circle – the people and networks who share in shaping your family environment Big idea: Circle is about building relationships with neighbors, care-givers, extended family and, most importantly, with your husband or for the single mom, with a parenting partner. Article ideas: Knowing who we can count on for support; interacting within a circle of relationships; getting to know your neighbors; respecting other approaches to raising kids; developing healthy relationships with service providers; becoming a mom changes friendship needs; extended family relationships can be tricky but offer a rich resource of love for our kids, co-parenting in blended families, engaging other women in new relationships; strengthening your relationship with your spouse. Submissions due: October 15, 2010
May/June: Grandscape – knowing who God is: engaging with him in the broadest view of life Big idea: Grandscape is about engaging with God and his unique purpose for your life – in those things seen and unseen – in the past, the present and the future. Both secular and Christian research identifies faith in God as an essential element for successful parenting. Article ideas: Getting to know God better; making space for your relationship with God within the busy days of mothering; sharing spiritual disciplines with your children; being part of a faith community supports spiritual growth; discovering your personal story within God’s story; sharing his love with others as you journey through the grandscape; different ways to feel close to God. Submissions due: December 15, 2010
July/August: A collection of “Momology” stories written by MOPS moms will highlight this issue. Big idea: Real-life applications that show something you’ve experienced or learned about the art and science of mothering. Article ideas: Share your story about any of the four elements of successful mothering: core – a healthy, resilient mom; finesse – understanding basic parenting skills; circle – interacting with supportive relationships; and grandscape – building a spiritual foundation. Post your “Momology” story online at www.mom-ology.org. (Website coming soon - please wait until June 1, 2010 to post.) Submissions due: February 15, 2011
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