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| Shopping + Preschoolers = A Great Adventure!
by Katherine Craddock
 Doing errands with children doesn’t have to be sheer torture. Here are some tips to help make shopping enjoyable again:
- Give your children a vision for the trip. Where are you going? What is the reward for good behavior at the end?
- Be ten times more excited than you want them to be. "Let's go on an adventure to the bank!" vs. "I hate the post-office too, BUT WE JUST HAVE TO DO IT, OK?!"
- Be wise with the time you go. Is it lunch time? Is it nap time? Are you feeling rushed?
- Make sure everyone has used the potty, had diapers changed, and been fed before you leave. Keep a pack of crackers in your bag in case of meltdowns, a tiny toy or two (small doll, car, rattle), and bring a bottle/sippy cup for your baby.
- Invest in a small backpack (instead of a traditional diaper bag or purse). It will free both of your hands and allow you to easily access and carry everything you need.
- Use the grocery cart to transport your children to and from the store. If no carts are available, ask your older children to hold on to your back pants pockets as you cross the street and balance the baby on one hip (or have the oldest child "help" you carry the baby carrier if you have an infant). Use an umbrella or double stroller for non-cart stops.
- Choose your battles. What offenses are truly worth making a scene?
- Give them things to look for. "Can you help me find ..." Let your children hand items to the cashier and practice polite introductions.
- Don't stay longer than needed. (If you want to window shop, get a babysitter). Get in, get your items, and get out!
- Discipline when you get home. Praise and reward good behavior. And treat yourself! You deserve it!
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Katherine Craddock is a writer and pastor’s wife who is the oldest of nine children and mother to three preschoolers of her own. She lives in Chantilly, Virginia and is part of The King’s Chapel MOPS. |
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