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Moms Who Change the World, Part One

by Stephanie Gates


January 2, 2014

Moms Who Change the World, Part One

Every Thursday this month, we are going to share the story of a mom who is changing the world. Because, together, we moms change the world on a daily basis with every meal, every hug, and every good night kiss.

In big ways and little ones, mothers shape the world. Over the next few weeks, we will honor the stories of ordinary moms who are doing extraordinary things.  We are inspired by their stories, and we think you will be too.


Jody Landers never dreamed she would change the world. Or maybe that was exactly what she dreamed.

Her story begins in Sierre Leon, Africa, where she was adopting three-year-old twins. "There was a moment when we were pulling away on the boat with the kids that I thought, 'Oh my gosh. This is so much bigger than adoption.' "Jody says. As she left the region to bring her children home to Iowa, Jody had an all-consuming thought. "If I was going to have the privilege of raising these kids, my life would also be committed to creating a world where the adoption of orphans is not necessary." 

Back in the US, however, Jody and her husband's family had just grown considerably. She had three children under four years old, and two of her children were adjusting to a new family and culture - her life was full. She turned to the place many mothers look for support and community: a play group.

She and her friends gathered in living rooms and shared their passion for serving others while their children played. Knowing how easy it would be to focus inward while caring for little ones, they challenged one another to continue to look outward. "The first step is to surround yourself with like-minded people," Jody says. Together, they looked for small, local projects, like collecting backpacks for foster children in their community.  Then one day the need for clean water in Africa came up during their play group.

"One year we gave up part of our Christmas and raised support for Charity: Water. We ended up raising a lot of money. And it just snowballed from there."

In fact, they raised so much money, Jody was invited to go to Liberia to witness the difference their contributions made. While in Liberia, she met Becky Straw. "I was completely intrigued and inspired by her," Jody says. "She had the education and experience that I lacked. I remember just drilling her with questions in the back of the jeep." Jody and Becky continued their friendship after returning home. In time, Becky had an idea, and approached Jody. And The Adventure Project was born.

The vision of The Adventure Project is simple. "We believe we can end extreme poverty in our lifetime by reinventing how we give. Ways that spur economic opportunity, promote dignity, and save lives." Jody knows there are many people just like her – who have limited time and resources – but still feel passionate about giving to others. The Adventure Project connects those who want to give with a woman in an impoverished area who simply need a means to support herself and her family. They have sponsored women building stoves in Haiti, and others selling irritation pumps in Kenya. Through individual donors, women are learning to be well engineers and healthcare workers in Uganda. The people who most want to serve are directly providing impoverished women all over the world with a means to support themselves.

Jody has lived out the convictions that first gripped her on a boat in Sierre Leon. By giving women in the poorest regions of the world a means to earn an income, she is working to end the extreme poverty that often leaves mothers unable to care for their children. More mothers can support their children, and fewer children are separated from their original families. 

Jody Landers is changing the world by giving women in impoverished areas a way to care for their own children. And that is every mother's dream.


I am Stephanie - mom to four beautifully rambunctious little kids and wife to a guy who still makes me smile.  If you have ever abandoned religion in search of faith, ever had to leave your hometown to find your home, or ever climbed to the very tip-top of a jungle gym to rescue an overzealous toddler, you may enjoy reading more at A Wide Mercy.  You can also follow along on Facebook.


If you could do one thing to change the world, what would it be?

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view yourself as favored that your mother is "everything". not every one of us did. some of had moms that we're everything that moms ought NOT be. I was blessed, I was sufficiently innocent to ask an auntie, what something implied (that I had heard my bio mother say) my close relative cracked got my sibling and I ate there. .Told my bio that it could be truly simple, she could sign over guardianship to my auntie, or it could go truly frightful, and my close relative would get explanations from the folks that had been through the spinning entryway that she called her room and my aunt would make sure the care hearings were open.


I think that your viewpoint is deep. I would recommend it to my friends, and hopefully this article useful to those who read it get inspired


Inspiration is the key to creating beautiful work. This inspiration develops out of the relationships we have with our ideas. The bucket list is a great opportunity to experience relationships with our resources and engage in positive affirmations leading us to be inspired.


I would give every mom a one day vacation. Just imagine the peace, joy and harmony that would happen in families if moms got a genuine day off once a month! A day off for moms isn't going to solve the orphan crisis or feed the hungry, but it would feed a lot of souls.


I would change the stress that burden our bodies everyday. From kids to work inside or outside the home it just never stops and our bodies sometimes pay the price. I decided to do something about it and go and get certified to be a yoga instructor. I am even teaching a class to the New Concord MOPS chapter here in Ohio this month. I hope it helps! Carie Aguayo


Beautiful story! Bravo to Jody! Your work inspires us all. Stephanie, thanks for sharing!


That's awesome on what they were doing. If I could change the world, education and reading would be at the top of the list